where do I find the white list to add people's email addresses

Hello RichardDoane, Thanks for the question! The white list option is found in two options that are available to protect your email account. The first is with Spam Assassin. Use this article on changing Spam Assassin settings to familiarize yourself with the interface. The whitelisting option is in the same area as the blacklisting options. You can also see specific SpamAssasin instructions here. The second option for whitelisting is found within McAfee. If you have setup the McAfee option to protect your emails, please review these instructions on adding whitelisted email addresses. I hope this helps to clarify the issue for you! If you have any further questions, please let us know. Regards, Arnel C.